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Saturday, February 23, 2013

Week #18

(This blog post is a day early)


How far along? 18 weeks. Woah!

Total weight gain/loss: Up 9lbs total since my last midwife appointment. I'm not worried about it. 

 Maternity clothes? Oh yes. YES YES YES. Just bought a new maternity shirt today

Stretch marks? Nope although my stomach is relly tight

Best moment this week:  Baby shopping, DUH! :P

Miss anything: Walking in comfort

Movement: Oh yes. I feel total slithering and poking. I love it!

Food cravings: mac in cheese and sour candy.

Anything making you queasy or sick: nothing anymore!

Have you started to show yet: YES.  

Gender: BOY! Boy! BOYY!

Labor Signs: No, no, no!  

Belly Button in or out? In but my belly feels so tight. I took out my belly ring last week and just making sure it's moisturized.

Wedding rings on or off? On! 

Happy or Moody most of the time: Good! No complaints over here.

Looking forward toPainting the nursery. Jared and I just got done removing the wallpaper and patching holes in the wall so next is primer!

                               your baby's the size of a sweet potato!
She's about 5.6 inches long and about 6.7 ounces now and she keeps on growing rapidly. (That's why you're probably feeling so hungry.)


"What the heck is baby doing in there at 18 weeks? A lot! He’s working his muscles and practicing all kinds of moves. (Can you feel them yet?) Over the next few weeks, you should make sure to start sleeping on your side. That’s because baby (and your uterus) are getting big enough to press against large veins in the back of your abdomen, which can reduce the amount of blood going to your heart, making you feel lightheaded, or worse, lowering your blood pressure. Of course, your veins aren't the only things that are prone to pressure -- you might be too! Not only are you super busy, but you might be having some not-so-fun symptoms, like swollen feet or hands, backaches, leg cramps and nosebleeds. And the stress and discomfort might be keeping you up at night around week 18. Be sure, in your hectic schedule, that you plan some time to unwind. (Great excuse for some pregnancy pampering! Can you say prenatal massage?!) It’s important to give your body and your mind a break for a little while. That just might help you get the sleep you need, too." - thebump.com

                                                    


   your baby at 18 weeks
  • Can you believe she's yawning, hiccuping, sucking and swallowing?
  • And she's twisting, rolling, punching and kicking, too -- and she's big enough that you might be able to feel her doing it!




Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Why I'm choosing to cloth diaper.

As most new moms, all of us are so excited to start the journey of Mommyhood. I know I was when my husband and I start to try to conceive. I researched ever possible topic a mother needed to know, should know, or may not want to know but still was/is good to know. One topic that many parent's choose not to research on, is diapers.

I chose my journey to research diapers when I found an article that exposed what goes on into making a disposable diaper. I was SHOCKED. and typically, I really thought it was bull. Everyone uses disposables. right?... or so I thought. What I found out was all the extremely harsh chemicals they put in disposables have given children 1st.2nd,and 3rd degree burns on children's genitals... some to the point of needing skin graphs. What the hell? Can't be true. That's what I said until I kept doing research on the specific chemicals.


"Baby’s poorly developed outer skin layer absorbs about 50 different chemicals if you use disposable diapers, wipes and standard baby products.
One of the dangers of disposable diapers is that they all contain something called Sodium Polyacrylate. Even the “eco-friendly” diapers contain this chemical, too. This is the chemical added to the inner pad of a disposable that makes it super-absorbent. When the powder gets wet, it turns into a gel that:
  • Can absorb up to 100 times its weight in water.
  • Can stick to baby’s genitals, causing allergic reactions.
  • Can cause severe skin irritation, oozing blood from perineum and scrotal tissues, fever, vomiting and staph infections in babies.
  • Was banned from tampons in 1985 because of its link to Toxic Shock Syndrome.
  • When injected into rats, has caused hemorrhage, cardiovascular failure and death.
  • Has killed children after ingesting as little as 5 grams of it.
These are the small, shiny, gelatinous crystals that you will sometimes find in your baby’s private parts during diaper changing."
...... This was BANNED in womans' tampons and STILL being put on our childs raw skin?
Most disposable diapers also contain Dioxin. This is a chemical by-product of the paper-bleaching process used in the manufacturing of most diapers. Dioxin is carcinogenic. In fact, the EPA lists it as the most toxic of all cancer-linked chemicals. In small quantities it causes birth defects, skin disease, liver disease, immune system suppression & genetic damage in lab animals. Dioxin is banned in most countries, but not the United States.
And if dioxin and sodium polyacrylate weren’t toxic enough, many disposable diapers contain Tributyl Tin (TBT). Considered a highly toxic environmental pollutant, TBT spreads through the skin and has a hormone-like effect in the tiniest concentrations. TBT harms the immune system and impairs the hormonal system, and it is speculated that it could cause sterility in boys.
Even worse, in 1999, a study showed that childhood respiratory problems, including asthma, might be linked to inhaling the mixture of chemicals emitted from disposable diapers. The study identified these chemicals in emissions from two brands of disposable diapers (specific brands tested were not disclosed):

Disposables Cause Rashes

Even if sodium polyacrylate was completely safe, the super-absorbent qualities of disposable diapers are not really the blessing they seem to be. Super-absorbent disposables can do three things:
  • Facilitate less diaper changing from parents, which leads to rashes because of exposure to the super-absorbent chemicals, bacteria, and ammonia from accumulated urine in the diaper.
  • Reduce air circulation and pull natural moisture (not just urine) our of your baby’s skin—which can cause irritation.
  • Raise the temperature of a baby boy’s scrotum far above body temperature, to the point that it can stop his testicles from developing normally, according to a study published in the Archives of Disease in Childhood.
Widespread diaper rash is a relatively new phenomenon that surfaced in tandem with the widespread use of disposable diapers, and is now found in over half of all U.S. babies. While diaper rashes can be caused by a variety of problems (food allergies, yeast, etc.), the majority of these rashes come from allergies to diaper and wipe chemicals, lack of air, higher temperatures (because plastic retains body heat), and being changed less often because babies feel dry when they are actually wet.
Certain dyes used to add color to disposable diapers have been shown to cause allergic reactions resulting in rashes. Repeated exposure to the dye can cause a long-term allergy. One study (Alberta et al., 2005) that looked at several babies who suffered from rashes found that the rashes only occurred in places where the skin was in direct contact with the dyed part of the diaper. Researchers believe that it is the continued exposure to the dyes that causes a sensitization, or allergic reaction, in babies.
The study also found the following chemicals in disposable diapers to be associated with allergic contact dermatitis (skin rash):
  • Mercaptobenzothiazole (rubber chemical)
  • P-tert-butyl-phenol-formaldehyde resin (glue)
  • Cyclohexylthiophthalimide (found in rubber)
Since prolonged exposure to a hot, dirty, chemical-laden diaper is the most common cause of diaper rashes, super-absorbent diapers may actually encourage parents to leave them on longer, causing these rashes.
Think about it. How many times have you stuck your finger into the leg of your baby’s bulging disposable diaper, and decided it was dry enough to stay on for another hour?
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By NO means am I trying to start any debate. I just don't like parent's or people who are not even parents telling me I'm making my life harder by cloth diapering. I'm really not. I'm possibly saving my children from burns, chemical reactions, pain and suffering, and allergic reactions. I want what's best for my babies just like all other moms do.. most. 
My cloth diaper and wipe stash. :) It's getting there! 


MY DREAM!!



So to ALL the people that keep questioning.. my answer will be blunt. I want what's best for my son and future children. My husband and I didn't even start this to save money. Once I found out the chemicals that were in disposables, I couldn't bring myself to put that on my baby's raw skin. Plain and simple. That's best for me may not be best for everyone. But this is MY family. My beliefs.My life. 

- Carly 






Sunday, February 17, 2013

Week #17




How far along? 17 weeks!

Total weight gain/loss: Up 9lbs total since my last midwife appointment. I'm not worried about it. 

 Maternity clothes? Completely. I can still wear most shirt though if they are long enough to cover my stomach

Stretch marks? No new ones

Best moment this week:  Now knowing the gender, it's fun to decorate and spend that money on our son! haha

Miss anything: Being in control of my body. I've been in a lot of pain lately. 

Movement: Oh yes. I feel total slithering and poking. I love it!

Food cravings: Cravings have really slowed down.

Anything making you queasy or sick: I still gag over absolutely nothing.

Have you started to show yet: YES.  

Gender: BOY! Boy! BOYY!

Labor Signs: No, no, no!  

Belly Button in or out? In but my belly feels so tight. I took out my belly ring. 

Wedding rings on or off? On! 

Happy or Moody most of the time: Moody. I've been having really bad sciatic nerve pain and round ligament pain REALLY FUCKING BAD. My belly is super tight feeling and quite painful which frustrates  me because I cannot do a lot on my own and Jared is well, Jared. Doesn't do much. lol

Looking forward toPainting the nursery soon! Well, we need to take off that awful brick wallpaper first....


"Try not to get freaked out by the numbers on your scale. At 17 weeks, baby’s working on getting stronger, and your body’s working on getting bigger. That means putting on some pounds and -- we hate to break it to you -- getting some stretch marks. Make sure you document your growing bump by taking lots of photos. Sure, you might not always feel so pretty, but one day you’re going to look back at pregnancy and reminisce (really -- we promise). You’ll also want to start figuring out some plans, like whether or not you’re going to find out baby’s gender (you should be able to soon!), and what kind of childbirth class you’d like to take. As you start making these decisions, the pregnancy will feel even more real, which is probably super exciting, but part of you is probably feeling a little nervous. After all, you’re at week 17; that’s almost halfway there and there’s still a lot left to do. Chill! You’ll get it done. Just remember not to try to do it all yourself -- ask for help!" - TheBump.com
                                   your baby's the size of an onion!
Baby continues to beef up. Now she's about 5.1 inches long and weighs about 5.9 ounces.



                                                             your baby at 17 weeks
  • Her rubbery cartilage is now turning to bone.
  • And she's growing some meat on those bones -- putting on some fat.
  • She's growing a stronger, thicker umbilical cord, too.















Sunday, February 10, 2013

Week #16




How far along? 16 weeks!

Total weight gain/loss: 9lbs total

 Maternity clothes? Completely. I can still wear most shirt though if they are long enough to cover my stomach

Stretch marks? No new ones

Best moment this week:  FINDING OUT THE GENDER!! IT'S A
BOY!!!!!


Miss anything: Sleeping on my stomach comfortably

Movement: I could ave sworn I felt something yesterday. But I really don't know. 

Food cravings: Cravings have really slowed down.

Anything making you queasy or sick: Not anymore. Except Jared's burritos. 

Have you started to show yet: YES.  

Gender: BOY

Labor Signs: No, no, no!  

Belly Button in or out? In but my belly feels so tight. 

Wedding rings on or off? On! 

Happy or Moody most of the time: Good! Anxious. I want to clean the nursery and million times over and over. 

Looking forward toNext weekend we start sanding the furniture down to paint everything for the little one!!



"Stay on the lookout for some fluttering sensations in your abdomen. It might not be right at 16 weeks, but pretty soon you’ll start feeling baby moving around in there. At first those moves might feel like gas or a muscle twitch, but over time, as baby gets bigger and stronger, they’ll be unmistakable. Of course, feeling those movements comes with other issues, like having your lungs crowded by your growing babe. That could make it seem tough to catch your breath from time to time. Don’t worry: There are some positive symptoms you might be having at week 16. For example, some moms-to-be find their hair and nails grow faster. (Your hair might actually look thicker and more lustrous and your skin might look radiant, too. Woo hoo!) Another cool fact? Baby’s starting to be able to hear your voice -- and she’ll recognize it at birth -- so feel free to chat her up." - TheBump.com


  
                              your baby's the size of an avocado!
Now, she's about 4.6 inches long and weighs about 3.5 ounces.


                                  your baby at 16 weeks
  • She's listening to your voice, thanks to tiny bones forming in her ears.
  • She's growing hair, lashes and eyebrows.
  • And she's forming taste buds.



Back aches, nerve pain in back, bigger boobs, and major forgetfulness are all part of the last week's new symptoms. 









Sunday, February 3, 2013

Week #15






















How far along? 15 weeks!

Total weight gain/loss: Up 7lbs

 Maternity clothes? Yes, Yes, Yes. I stil live in my yoga pants though. 

Stretch marks? No new ones

Best moment this week:  Clearing out Jareds man cave so we can start painting it once we find out the gender which I'm SO excited about. 


Miss anything: Not feeling heavy.

Movement: No

Food cravings: Nothing really. Beef.

Anything making you queasy or sick: I've been feeling great this week. First time since being pregnant.

Have you started to show yet: YES.  

Gender: We find out in 7 days.

Labor Signs: No, no, no!  

Belly Button in or out? In but my belly feels so tight. 

Wedding rings on or off? On! 

Happy or Moody most of the time: Good!

Looking forward toSaturday we drive out to Chattanooga and find out the gender! Seriously? That's 7 days!
  



                  your baby's the size of a orange!
The average fetus at 15 weeks weighs 2.5 ounces and measures 4 inches -- and his proportions are becoming even more normal, since his legs now out-measure his arms.

                    your baby at 15 weeks


  • You probably can't feel it yet, but she's squirming a ton!
  • She might even be hiccuping in there.
  • She's making lots of progress: her joints and limbs can all move now.







Friday, February 1, 2013

Fun Ways to "Determine" the gender of the baby!


I know the only way to properly tell the gender of the baby is by ultrasound. I did this just for fun! :)

The Chinese Gender Chart says: Boy



It’s a Boy If…It’s a Girl If…
You don’t look pregnant from behind XYou have gained weight in your bottom
The baby’s heart rate is less than 140 bpmThe baby’s heart rate is more than 140 bpm X
No morning sickness XYou were blessed with morning sickness
The hair on your legs is growing faster XThe hair on your legs is the same
The baby is carried highThe baby is carried low X
Your pillow faces North or SouthXYour pillow faces East or West
Your feet are colder than beforeYour feet are fineX
You will eat the heel of a loaf of breadXYou refuse the heel of bread
Your husband is gaining sympathetic weightYour husband has not gained weightX
The maternal Grandma has grey hairThe maternal Grandma has colored hair (dyed or not)X
Your breasts have not grown muchYour breasts have increased in size dramaticallyX
Your urine is bright yellowXYour urine is pale
You crave “man food” - salty, cheesy, meaty, friedYou crave sweets, fruits, vegetablesX
The shape of your nose has changedYour nose has stayed the sameX
You are having headachesYou are not having headachesX
Your stomach looks like a basketballYour stomach looks like a watermelonX
A ring on a thread held over your stomach moves in circlesA ring on a thread held over your stomach moves back and forth
Mom’s age at conception added to the month conceived in adds up to an even numberMom’s age at conception added to the month conceived in adds up to an odd numberX
When someone asks you to show your hands you present them palms downWhen someone asks you to show your hands you present them palms upX
If you pick up a key off the floor by the topXIf you pick up a key off the floor by the bottom
If your areolas are very darkIf your areolas have darkened only slightlyX
Your skin is very dryXYour skin is normal
You are as beautiful as everYour daughter is stealing your beauty X